{"id":70659,"date":"2024-05-04T05:07:11","date_gmt":"2024-05-04T05:07:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=70659"},"modified":"2024-05-06T14:02:25","modified_gmt":"2024-05-06T14:02:25","slug":"dung-duc-khuon-con-cai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/dung-duc-khuon-con-cai\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1eeaNG \u201c\u0110\u00daC KHU\u00d4N\u201d CON C\u00c1I"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\u0110\u1eeaNG\u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i! C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ch. Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i! Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e0ng th\u00eam r\u1ed1i. Th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 h\u00f3a b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp!<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 chi li, ch\u00fang ta gi\u00e1o d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 m\u1ecfng d\u00f2n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta sao? Ch\u1ecb Duy\u00ean, nh\u00e0 kinh doanh, n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cCh\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p nguy c\u01a1, lu\u00f4n t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ec1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: \u2018M\u1eb9 \u01a1i, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con.\u2019 Ch\u00e1u mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ca s\u0129 nh\u1ea1c rock. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t \u0103n m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Ph\u01b0\u1ee3ng, 20 tu\u1ed5i, sinh vi\u00ean \u0110H, l\u00e0 con ch\u1ecb Duy\u00ean, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, cho n\u00ean em mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng. Ph\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1eb9 lo l\u1eafng. M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u1ed7i khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ca s\u0129 nh\u1ea1c rock. Th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Bono, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn anh ta s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ma t\u00fay. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ca s\u0129 nh\u1ea1c rock \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i lo trong c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng. Con c\u00e1i \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Con c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y nay \u0111ang b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. S\u1ef1 \u201cb\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c\u201d n\u00e0y \u0111ang khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u1edbt. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, t\u00e2m l\u00fd gia Jerome Kagan, thu\u1ed9c \u0110H Harvard, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang lo s\u1ee3. Ch\u1ecb Mai, nh\u00e0 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf th\u1eddi trang, n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cCha t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i d\u1eady, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi cho c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0Vinh, con ch\u1ecb Mai, n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cCha m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed9c t\u1ed1: v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, \u00e2m \u1ec9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ea3n sinh \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd Avdesh Sharma n\u00f3i:\u00a0\u201cCha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt lo l\u1eafng n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0N\u1ebfu con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh, ch\u00fang v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c. N\u00ean ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1eebng \u201c\u0111\u00fac khu\u00f4n\u201d ch\u00fang ho\u1eb7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 \u201cg\u00e0 c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1eddi non d\u1ea1 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nam di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean Nisha Singh, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Con g\u00e1i anh l\u00e0 Aisha, 11 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc ch\u01a1i golf, anh c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o con g\u00e1i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00fa ti\u00eau khi\u1ec3n t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 Aisha s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 Aisha th\u1ee9c d\u1eady tr\u1ec5 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd con g\u00e1i. C\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c?<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u201cth\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cm\u1eb7c k\u1ec7\u201d con c\u00e1i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u201cnh\u1eb9\u201d th\u00f4i, v\u00ec ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 khi\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c, m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, th\u00edch d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e3o, kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh d\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1eebng s\u1ee3 ch\u00fang sai l\u1ea7m, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ai l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng sai l\u1ea7m?<\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ee7. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00e2y l\u1ea7m l\u1eabn. Lo l\u1eafng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, v\u1eeba h\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u201cs\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng\u201d v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00fang, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d theo \u00fd cha m\u1eb9.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u201cthi\u00ean ph\u00fa\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3!<\/span><\/p>\n

TR\u1ea6M THI\u00caN THU<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Bay Cao \u01af\u1edbc M\u01a1 \u2013\u00a0https:\/\/youtu.be\/DnNWuOMms7w<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i! C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ch. Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i! Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":70660,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70659","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chia-se","category-tieu-diem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70659","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=70659"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70659\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":70698,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70659\/revisions\/70698"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70660"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=70659"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=70659"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=70659"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}