{"id":63647,"date":"2022-11-17T14:00:49","date_gmt":"2022-11-17T14:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=63647"},"modified":"2022-11-17T14:00:49","modified_gmt":"2022-11-17T14:00:49","slug":"xin-loi-con-cai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/xin-loi-con-cai\/","title":{"rendered":"XIN L\u1ed6I CON C\u00c1I"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\"Xinloiconcai\"\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch l\u1edbn lao khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i \u2013 d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf hay l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con c\u00e1i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n hy v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00fang bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tho\u1ea1t ngh\u0129, kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. X\u00c2Y D\u1ef0NG NI\u1ec0M TIN V\u00c0 S\u1ef0 G\u1eaeN B\u00d3<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m uy t\u00edn cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00f2ng tin, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. S\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi ch\u00fang tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p con c\u00e1i coi cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng khi ch\u00fang l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. L\u00c0M G\u01af\u01a0NG KHI\u00caM NH\u01af\u1edcNG V\u00c0 C\u01af X\u1eec T\u1ed0T<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Xin l\u1ed7i con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 cho ch\u00fang. Cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m xin l\u1ed7i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i hay do d\u1ef1.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Khi ch\u00fang ta xin l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c hay quy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00f3a vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. NOI G\u01af\u01a0NG CH\u00daA THA TH\u1ee8<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch n\u1ebfu con c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9 \u2013 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1eeb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Khi gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u01b0u ti\u00ean vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho con c\u00e1i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. N\u00caN XIN L\u1ed6I V\u1ec0 \u0110I\u1ec0U \u0110ANG B\u0102N KHO\u0102N?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 vi ph\u1ea1m lu\u1eadt y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean xin l\u1ed7i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u00e0i v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Ba\/m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i gay g\u1eaft v\u1edbi con. Ba\/m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. Ba\/m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1edbi con. Ba\/m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ba\/m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ba\/m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi con cho r\u00f5 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u xin l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/em>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

          H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i t\u1ed1t n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1eddi b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do cha m\u1eb9 c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng n\u00eau r\u00f5 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u1ebd ra cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng ngay sau khi xin l\u1ed7i, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n:\u00a0\u201cCon b\u1ecf qua cho ba\/m\u1eb9 nh\u00e9!\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

          Sau \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn th\u00eam v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, h\u00e3y \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh n\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Khi ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m (\u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu) c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 n\u00ean nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i. Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

          ZOE ROMANOWSKY<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

          TR\u1ea6M THI\u00caN THU<\/u><\/strong>\u00a0(chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef t\u1eeb Aleteia.org)<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

          \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch l\u1edbn lao khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i \u2013 d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf hay l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con c\u00e1i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":63648,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63647","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chia-se","category-tieu-diem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63647","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63647"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63647\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":63649,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63647\/revisions\/63649"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63648"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63647"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63647"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63647"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}