{"id":62618,"date":"2022-09-02T11:18:18","date_gmt":"2022-09-02T11:18:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=62618"},"modified":"2022-09-02T11:18:18","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T11:18:18","slug":"hoc-lam-nguoi-truong-thanh-nhan-cach-bai-53","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/hoc-lam-nguoi-truong-thanh-nhan-cach-bai-53\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u1eccC L\u00c0M NG\u01af\u1edcI TR\u01af\u1edeNG TH\u00c0NH NH\u00c2N C\u00c1CH- B\u00e0i 53"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u00c0I 53<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u0102N HO\u00c1 GIAO TI\u1ebeP – TR\u00c1NH TH\u00d3I GANH GH\u00c9T \u0110\u1ed0 K\u1ef4 <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0\"Bai53\"<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. L\u1edcI CH\u00daA : Th\u00e1nh Phao-l\u00f4 d\u1ea1y : \u201c\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ganh t\u1ecb hay v\u00ec h\u01b0 danh, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eebng t\u00ecm l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y t\u00ecm l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d (Pl 2,3-4).<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n
  2. C\u00c2U CHUY\u1ec6N : H\u1ed2 TINH CH\u1ec8 S\u1ee2 LO\u00c0I H\u1ed2 TINH TH\u00d4I.<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Trong s\u00e1ch C\u1ed5 H\u1ecdc Tinh Hoa c\u00f3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 lo\u00e0i h\u1ed3 tinh nh\u01b0 sau : T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7u s\u00e1ch kia c\u00f3 m\u00f4t con h\u1ed3 tinh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t l\u00fd th\u00fa khi\u1ebfn ai nghe c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u1ecdp nhau t\u1ea1i l\u1ea7u s\u00e1ch mang theo c\u1ea3 con h\u00e1t \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea7u r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Khi men r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eebng b\u1eebng, c\u1ea3 b\u1ecdn li\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi nhau r\u1eb1ng : \u201cAi s\u1ee3 g\u00ec s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt n\u00f3i ra. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3i v\u00f4 l\u00fd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t r\u01b0\u1ee3u\u201d. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn : n\u00e0o l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc r\u1ed9ng, n\u00e0o l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 k\u1ebb gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m quan to, s\u1ee3 k\u1ebb xu n\u1ecbnh, s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, s\u1ee3 k\u1ebb l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p c\u00e2u n\u1ec7, s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng \u00edt n\u00f3i, s\u1ee3 k\u1ebb \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u0103p l\u1eedng\u2026 Sau c\u00f9ng khi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t, h\u1ed3 tinh li\u1ec1n ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u :<\/span><\/p>\n

    – C\u00f2n ta ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 l\u00f2ai h\u1ed3 tinh c\u1ee7a ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ai n\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng : \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 lo\u00e0i h\u1ed3 tinh m\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang. Ng\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1ecdai can chi ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 ? Ph\u1ea1t ng\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00e9n r\u01b0\u1ee3u\u201d. H\u1ed3 tinh li\u1ec1n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng : \u201cThi\u00ean h\u1ea1 duy c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1ecdai l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 nhau m\u00e0 th\u00f4i : Con c\u00f9ng cha m\u1edbi tranh nhau gia s\u1ea3n; G\u00e1i c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi hay ghen t\u1ee9c nhau; K\u1ebb tranh quy\u1ec1n t\u1ea5t l\u00e0 quan l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3ng tri\u1ec1u; K\u1ebb tranh l\u1ee3i t\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00e1i bu\u00f4n m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7. B\u1ee9c b\u00e1ch nhau th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i nhau; Tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i nhau th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u00e9 ng\u00e3 nhau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eafn tr\u0129 th\u00ec d\u00f9ng con tr\u0129 l\u00e0m m\u1ed3i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng con g\u00e0 con ng\u1ed7ng; Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u0103n h\u01b0\u01a1u th\u00ec d\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u01a1u l\u00e0m m\u1ed3i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng con d\u00ea con l\u1ee3n. Ph\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea1i nhau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ec1u d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1ecdai c\u1ea3. C\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 suy th\u00ec h\u1ed3 tinh ta s\u1ee3 lo\u00e0i h\u1ed3 tinh c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u00fd ? \u201c M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe xong \u0111\u1ec1u cho h\u1ed3 tinh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. SUY NI\u1ec6M :<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      1) NGUY\u00caN NH\u00c2N C\u1ee6A TH\u00d3I GANH GH\u00c9T \u0110\u1ed0 K\u1ef4\u00a0:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      – Th\u00f3i hay ganh gh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb bu\u1ed5i b\u00ecnh minh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n l\u1ecdai :<\/strong> S\u00e1ch S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf K\u00fd \u0111\u00e3 ghi l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ganh gh\u00e9t c\u1ee7a hai anh em l\u00e0 Ca-in v\u00e0 A-ben l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1ed5: Th\u1ea5y l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a em A-ben \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, Ca-in li\u1ec1n sinh l\u00f2ng ganh t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00ecm d\u1ecbp gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft A-ben ng\u00f2ai \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1eafng. R\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec7n \u00f4ng Giu-se l\u00e0 con \u00fat c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ph\u1ee5 Gia-c\u00f3p, \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb c\u00e1c anh ganh gh\u00e9t h\u00e8 nhau n\u00e9m xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ebfng c\u1ea1n v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e1n cho b\u1ecdn l\u00e1i bu\u00f4n sang b\u00ean Ai c\u1eadp l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Trong T\u00e2n \u01af\u1edbc c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra ganh t\u1ee9c v\u1edbi hai anh em nh\u00e0 Gi\u00ea-b\u00ea-\u0111\u00ea, khi th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn xin Th\u1ea7y Gi\u00ea-su cho ng\u1ed3i hai b\u00ean t\u1ea3 h\u1eefu sau khi Th\u1ea7y l\u00ean l\u00e0m vua. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00ea-su \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng : Ai mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m l\u1edbn th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0103n \u1edf nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ed1t h\u1ebft v\u00e0 ai mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i khi\u00eam h\u1ea1 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 anh em (x Mt 20,24-28). Ch\u00ednh \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00ea-su c\u0169ng b\u1ecb b\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ee5c Do th\u00e1i ganh gh\u00e9t khi h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y d\u00e2n ch\u00fang b\u1ecf h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u0169 l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111i theo \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00ea-su. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i : \u201cK\u00eca xem thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 theo \u00f4ng ta h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 r\u1ed3i\u201d. Ch\u00ednh l\u00f2ng ganh gh\u00e9t \u0111\u00e3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ee5c n\u00e0y c\u00e1o gian v\u1edbi quan T\u1ed5ng Tr\u1ea5n Phi-la-t\u00f4 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i \u00f4ng k\u1ebft \u00e1n t\u1eed h\u00ecnh cho Ng\u01b0\u1eddi (x Mt 27,18).<\/span><\/p>\n

      – Ganh gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 do th\u00f3i ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o ph\u00e1t sinh :<\/strong> Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay ganh gh\u00e9t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0: anh em c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hay c\u00f9ng ngh\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ho\u1eb7c ngay c\u1ea3 anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u2026 Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, danh d\u1ef1, chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n, b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t\u2026 th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y k\u00e9m vui, lo l\u1eafng, ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c\u2026 r\u1ed3i c\u0103m gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ed5\u2026 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i : \u201cGi\u00e0u n\u00f3 gh\u00e9t; \u0110\u00f3i r\u00e9t n\u00f3 khinh; M\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh th\u00ec n\u00f3 ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t\u201d. V\u1eady ganh gh\u00e9t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ghen \u0103n t\u1ee9c \u1edf khi th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ganh gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 do th\u00f3i ki\u00eau c\u0103ng, t\u1ef1 \u00e1i cao, h\u00e1o th\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u00f3c h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i thi\u1ec3n c\u1eadn.<\/span><\/p>\n

      2) H\u1eacU QU\u1ea2 C\u1ee6A TH\u00d3I X\u1ea4U GANH GH\u00c9T \u0110\u1ed0 K\u1ef4\u00a0:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      – Trong \u201cTam Qu\u1ed1c Di\u1ec5n Ngh\u0129a\u201d c\u00f3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n Chu Du<\/strong> v\u00ec ganh t\u1ee9c v\u1edbi Kh\u1ed5ng Minh<\/strong> Gia C\u00e1t L\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i Gia C\u00e1t L\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u00ec u\u1ea5t h\u1eadn n\u00ean Chu Du \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb h\u1ed9c m\u00e1u m\u1ed3m ra m\u00e0 ch\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n

      – Ganh gh\u00e9t g\u00e2y h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng :<\/strong> Ganh gh\u00e9t l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2an k\u1ebft n\u1ed9i b\u1ed9, c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf t\u00e0i n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3n b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i l\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb ganh gh\u00e9t lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u201cstress\u201d. N\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u1ecd b\u1ecf v\u1ea1 c\u00e1o gian, n\u00f3i h\u00e0nh n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 g\u00e0i b\u1eaby l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i k\u1ebb h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh cho h\u1ea3 d\u1ea1\u2026 Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Ph\u00e1p De Balzac n\u00f3i : \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ganh t\u1ecb kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 k\u1ebb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o. B\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh trong anh ta l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng nh\u00e2n l\u00ean b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

      3) PH\u01af\u01a0NG C\u00c1CH KH\u1eaeC PH\u1ee4C TH\u00d3I GANH GH\u00c9T \u0110\u1ed0 K\u1ef4:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      – V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean:<\/strong> C\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng do c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c lao \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 m\u1edbi th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan. H\u00e3y \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng : \u201cTh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ta quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i, th\u00ec s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i hay c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung h\u00f2an thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1i d\u1edf c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a anh em \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a d\u1ea1y : \u201cAi khen ta m\u00e0 khen ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ta. Ai ch\u00ea ta m\u00e0 ch\u00ea ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y ta. Ai n\u1ecbnh h\u00f3t ta, \u1ea5y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eady\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

      N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng ph\u00f2ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec ganh gh\u00e9t, c\u00f4 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gi\u1edd t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c hay ch\u01a1i th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eafc di\u1ec7n s\u1ebd n\u00ean h\u1ed3ng h\u00e0o, th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i, d\u00e1ng \u0111i s\u1ebd thanh nh\u00e3 g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng h\u01a1n\u2026 R\u1ed3i c\u00f4 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u01b0u l\u00f3at nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, h\u1ecdc th\u00eam n\u1eef c\u00f4ng gia ch\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 trang b\u1ecb th\u00eam ph\u1ea9m h\u1ea1nh cho m\u00ecnh\u2026 Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady d\u00f9 c\u00f3 thua k\u00e9m s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c\u2026 N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi con c\u1ea3 th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed \u201ccon y\u00eau con gh\u00e9t\u201d\u00a0: cho \u0111\u1ee9a em nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh,\u2026 Thay v\u00ec t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n ngang ng\u1ea1nh, x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 h\u1eb1n h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi em\u2026. th\u00ec h\u00e3y t\u00ecm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng : cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9a con ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ee9a l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ee9a y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ee9a hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o bi\u1ebft v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ee9a \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o \u2026 V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng tu s\u1eeda b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i em m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m chi ?<\/span><\/p>\n

      – V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t si\u00eau nhi\u00ean :<\/strong> H\u00e3y xin \u01a1n Ch\u00faa tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap ta noi g\u01b0\u01a1ng Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su, \u201c\u0110\u1ea5ng hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng trong l\u00f2ng\u201d, r\u1ed3i th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh theo l\u1eddi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea1y : \u201cAi n\u00e2ng m\u00ecnh l\u00ean s\u1ebd b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ai t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng l\u00ean\u201d. C\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng theo l\u1eddi th\u00e1nh Phao-l\u00f4 : \u201cVui v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui, kh\u00f3c v\u1edbi k\u1ebb kh\u00f3c\u201d. Khi x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3an c\u1ea7n theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc : \u201cKhoan dung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

      T\u00d3M L\u1ea0I : Khi th\u1ea5y ai h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec ganh gh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd, ta h\u00e3y khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m xem m\u00ecnh thua h\u1ecd \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o, r\u1ed3i quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u201ctu t\u00e2m d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e1nh\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t n\u00ean h\u00f2an thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i : \u201cMu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. SINH HO\u1ea0T :<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Ganh \u0111ua v\u00e0 tranh \u0111ua<\/em><\/strong> kh\u00e1c nhau th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ? B\u1ea1n n\u00ean ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00ed tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh ? <\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. L\u1edcI C\u1ea6U :<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su. Xin cho ch\u00fang con tr\u00e1nh th\u00f3i ganh gh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5 c\u00e1c <\/em><\/strong>b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n ch\u00fang con. Cho ch\u00fang con bi\u1ebft th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt khen ng\u1ee3i<\/em><\/strong> c\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t n\u00ean t\u1ed1t<\/em><\/strong> \u0111\u1eb9p ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd, thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i h\u00e0nh n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.- AMEN.<\/span><\/p>\n

          LM \u0110AN VINH \u2013 HHTM<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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