{"id":35724,"date":"2017-07-01T07:28:25","date_gmt":"2017-07-01T07:28:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=35724"},"modified":"2017-07-01T07:28:56","modified_gmt":"2017-07-01T07:28:56","slug":"loi-ich-cua-mot-loi-xin-loi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/loi-ich-cua-mot-loi-xin-loi\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u1ee2I \u00cdCH C\u1ee6A M\u1ed8T L\u1edcI XIN L\u1ed6I"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LoiIchCuaMotLoiXinLoi\"Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u00e0 linh h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o qu\u00ean vi\u1ec7c \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00e3 la m\u1eafng khi t\u00f4i m\u1eafc m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ed7i. \u00a0T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng trong th\u00e2m t\u00e2m t\u00f4i gi\u1eadn s\u00f4i l\u00ean. \u00a0T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai. \u00a0Trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai v\u00e0 t\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nhanh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ed3n ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. \u00a0Tuy nhi\u00ean, bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 cao. \u00a0C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e1o lui, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh khi ph\u1ea3i th\u00fa nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh sai ph\u1ea1m. \u00a0M\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed sai v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1: c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i g\u00ec, k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u t\u1ed1i \u0111a nh\u1eefng sai qu\u1ea5y m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. \u00a0Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ngu mu\u1ed9i m\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, tr\u00f2 l\u01b0\u01a1n l\u1eb9o ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. \u00a0T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u0103n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh an cho t\u1edbi khi t\u00f4i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang. \u00a0Khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7, t\u00f4i n\u1eb1m trong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00eam ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed5i huy\u1ebft \u00e1p nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt. \u00a0T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i \u2013 ho\u1eb7c xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u2013 nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1ee3i \u00edch th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i n\u00f3i ra ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, n\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00a0\u201cKh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf y\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u0103n qua, tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c th\u1edf v\u00ec nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp trong l\u1ed3ng ng\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n \u0103n, u\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u mu\u1ed1n n\u1ed5 tung\u201d. \u00a0\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Chaline Laino, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i \u0111em l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tr\u00ean trang Web MD.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. \u00a0Laino c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u0103m 2002 do \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Hope v\u00e0 Virginia Commonwealth cho th\u1ea5y: nh\u1ecbp tim, huy\u1ebft \u00e1p,\u00a0l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 n\u00e9t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t c\u0169ng gi\u1ea3m khi n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xin l\u1ed7i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00edch khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i. \u00a0Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i \u2013 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n r\u00fat lui sau m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i. \u00a0Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean Jason Biggs \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh tr\u00ean Tweet sau m\u1ed9t tai n\u1ea1n m\u00e1y bay. \u00a0Anh ta l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cM\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. \u00a0Xin l\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m\u2026 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ra kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac. \u00a0V\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 anh ta c\u1ed1 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng; ch\u1ec9 xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda, th\u1eadt ra l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i sai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00a0N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u00e2n h\u1eadn v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1edf th\u1ec3 l\u00fd nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 trong tinh th\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. \u00a0N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, lo l\u1eafng li\u00ean quan, v\u00e0 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. \u00a0Trong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Ng\u00e0y nay<\/em>, nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Beverly Engel m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u201cM\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i\u201d t\u1eeb m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 ta, sau ba n\u0103m coi nhau nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng o\u00e1n gh\u00e9t x\u01b0a c\u0169 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao sau n\u00e0y. \u00a0\u0110\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng xin l\u1ed7i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa v\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd qua \u0111i. \u00a0Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 v\u1eady. \u00a0S\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i dai d\u1eb3ng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y quen thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c t\u1eed, khi th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng tham gia m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m \u201cR\u01b0\u1ee3u kh\u00f4ng t\u00ean\u201d t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 nh\u00f3m. \u00a0T\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i nghe v\u00e0i chia s\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a g\u1eb7p bao gi\u1edd. \u00a0M\u01b0\u1eddi hai b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a AA t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea3n b\u00e1o c\u00e1o \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 9 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda sai. \u00a0Ngay c\u1ea3 khi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng sai l\u1ed7i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 n\u00ean kh\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u2013 \u0111\u00e2y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Xin l\u1ed7i gi\u00fap \u00edch t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m\u00a0M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n tha th\u1ee9 cho m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3<\/em>, Allen Hunt vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u00ean Amy, m\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 tranh lu\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m trong nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. \u00a0S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9, ch\u1ecb ta b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 th\u1edd n\u00e0y \u0111i l\u1ec5 \u1edf m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u1edd kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng coi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 xong.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, Allen v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i Amy trong m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u tennis. \u00a0Tim anh nh\u01b0 th\u1eaft l\u1ea1i khi c\u00f4 ta nh\u1eadn ra anh v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi \u2013 c\u00f4 ta \u0111i b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i. \u00a0\u201cC\u00f4 ta \u0111\u00e3 tho\u00e1t ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a cho t\u00f4i ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n chua ch\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m kh\u1ea3m t\u00f4i b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u nay\u201d, Hunt \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00a0L\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9c cho m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 ta c\u1ea7n n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 Amy. \u00a0Khi t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, m\u00e0 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh. \u00a0T\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 l\u1eafm, v\u00e0 th\u00fa nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 g\u1eafn m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o n\u00f3. \u00a0M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ai trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng b\u1eb1ng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00a0S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i cho ph\u00e9p ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, m\u00e0 ta mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t th\u00ed d\u1ee5 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean Reese Witherspoon, sau khi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng trong phim \u2018Good morning America<\/em>\u2019, v\u1ec1 t\u1ed9i c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t v\u00ec b\u1ecb nghi ng\u1edd c\u00f4 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 l\u00e1i xe khi u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u. \u00a0Tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh qu\u1ed1c gia c\u00f4 n\u00f3i, \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i \u0103n t\u1ed1i \u1edf Atlanta, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 u\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ly r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e1i xe t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. \u00a0T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a Reese Witherspoon g\u1ed3m ba b\u01b0\u1edbc: Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, c\u00f4 ta th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 sai. \u00a0C\u00f4 nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch hay bi\u1ec7n minh. \u00a0C\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, l\u1ea7n sau c\u00f4 s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh sai ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. \u00a0Th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m sai, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean giao th\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra. \u00a0Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, Witherspoon \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb, m\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, cho d\u00f9 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 cho c\u00f4.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n v\u00e0i c\u00e2u ng\u1eafn ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng \u2013 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i suy \u0111i ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i. \u00a0C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ta s\u1ef1 thanh th\u1ea3n, b\u00ecnh an.<\/span><\/p>\n

(The life-changing benefits of a good apology\/<\/em>Michael Rennier)<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e0nh D\u01b0\u01a1ng\u00a0chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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L\u1ea1y Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n Ch\u00faa, xin gi\u00fap con bi\u1ebft d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf t\u1ef1 \u00e1i, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, xin ban th\u00eam \u01a1n can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n m\u1edf mi\u1ec7ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai m\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee1 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.\u00a0 V\u00e0 c\u0169ng xin cho con bi\u1ebft m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i t\u1eeb anh em con.\u00a0 Amen!<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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