{"id":33060,"date":"2017-02-06T14:38:57","date_gmt":"2017-02-06T14:38:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=33060"},"modified":"2017-02-06T14:57:01","modified_gmt":"2017-02-06T14:57:01","slug":"bay-loi-khuyen-nen-doc-truoc-khi-phat-tre-con","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/bay-loi-khuyen-nen-doc-truoc-khi-phat-tre-con\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u1ee2I \u00dd GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C TR\u1eba"},"content":{"rendered":"

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M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 BI\u1ebeT c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 BI\u1ebeT l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. Ph\u1ee5 huynh (gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vi\u00ean) ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft \u201cnh\u1ea5n n\u00fat ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i \u0111a v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y g\u1eb7p Th\u00e1nh Gioan Don Bosco \u2013 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Th\u00e1nh Don Bosco bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, v\u00ec ng\u00e0i d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng \u201ccon ng\u1ef1a ch\u1ee9ng\u201d. Ng\u00e0i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00fang v\u00e0 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, Th\u00e1nh Bosco c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vi\u00ean m\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Trong nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 g\u1edfi cho c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vi\u00ean, Th\u00e0nh Bosco cho bi\u1ebft chi ti\u1ebft \u201cH\u1ec7 Th\u1ed1ng Ng\u0103n Ng\u1eeba\u201d c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh V\u00c2NG L\u1edcI ch\u1ee9 KH\u00d4NG S\u1ee2 H\u00c3I ho\u1eb7c MI\u1ec4N C\u01af\u1ee0NG, nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng S\u1ef0 THUY\u1ebeT PH\u1ee4C. Trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi s\u1ee9c \u00e9p ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf, v\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 L\u00d2NG KHOAN DUNG.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1ea3y g\u1ee3i \u00fd m\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Gioan Bosco truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t cho c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vi\u00ean, c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1eabn ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebd \u201cm\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi\u201d ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u201cth\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng\u201d ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb em ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. TR\u1eeaNG PH\u1ea0T L\u00c0 H\u1ea0 C\u1ea4P<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf g\u1ea5p 10 l\u1ea7n, h\u00f9 d\u1ecda tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ch\u00fang. C\u0169ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e2n t\u00f2ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi th\u00f3i quen th\u00e2m c\u0103n c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0i v\u1ea9n ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. GI\u00c1O VI\u00caN PH\u1ea2I C\u00d3 UY T\u00cdN<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      Khi ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t m\u00e0 n\u00f3 nhen nh\u00f3m l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ganh \u0111ua, kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      M\u1ed7i gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn. Gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i cho r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 mong \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN TR\u1eeaNG PH\u1ea0T C\u00d4NG KHAI<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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        Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee5 ho\u1eb7c hi\u1ec1n m\u1eabu. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eeda d\u1ea1y c\u00f4ng khai, n\u00ean s\u1eeda d\u1ea1y ri\u00eang, nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Latin c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cIn camera caritatis\u201d\u00a0\u2013 trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 s\u1eeda d\u1ea1y khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 s\u1eeda d\u1ea1y c\u00f4ng khai trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p hi\u1ebfm hoi, nh\u1eb1m ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba ho\u1eb7c s\u1eeda tr\u1ecb \u2013 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ed9i nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n r\u0103n \u0111e \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. TUY\u1ec6T \u0110\u1ed0I TR\u00c1NH H\u00ccNH PH\u1ea0T TH\u1ec2 L\u00dd<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          Lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1o C\u1ea4M c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t th\u1ec3 l\u00fd \u2013 qu\u1ef3 g\u1ed1i, t\u00e1t m\u00e1, k\u00e9o tai,\u2026 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c d\u1ea1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.. C\u00e1c d\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng h\u1ea1 gi\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          1. QUY \u01af\u1edaC NGHI\u00caM T\u00daC V\u00c0 R\u1ea0CH R\u00d2I<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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            Gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng lu\u1eadt v\u1ec1 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t k\u00e8m theo, ph\u1ea3i cho h\u1ecdc sinh bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7n c\u1edb l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u00ean ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb c\u1ea5m. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u201cbi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111ang m\u00f9 m\u1edd, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u00e9 ng\u00e3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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            1. KI\u00caN \u0110\u1ecaNH V\u1ec0 NGUY\u00caN T\u1eaeC<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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              H\u00e3y ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5, h\u00e3y ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y can \u0111\u1ea3m ng\u0103n ch\u0103n \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.<\/span><\/p>\n

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              Gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecdc sinh \u201cgh\u00ea t\u1edfm\u201d v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. S\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ngang ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec l\u00f2ng khoan dung s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. L\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eadm t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 tri\u1ec7t c\u0103n h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u.<\/span><\/p>\n

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              1. KI\u1ec0M CH\u1ebe C\u00c1I T\u00d4I<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                Khi x\u1eed l\u00fd tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb che khu\u1ea5t b\u1edfi b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn. N\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng ho\u1eb7c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d v\u00f9ng l\u00ean. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf, h\u00e3y im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh ra n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 tr\u00ed \u00f3c, con tim v\u00e0 mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, h\u00e3y g\u1ee3i l\u00ean l\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng trong trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                Trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, h\u00e3y khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u1eefu \u00edch h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i!<\/span><\/p>\n

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                PHILIP KOSLOSKI<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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                TR\u1ea6M THI\u00caN THU<\/u><\/strong> (chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef t\u1eeb aleteia.org)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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