{"id":24787,"date":"2016-03-12T05:56:22","date_gmt":"2016-03-12T05:56:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=24787"},"modified":"2016-03-12T05:56:22","modified_gmt":"2016-03-12T05:56:22","slug":"suc-manh-cua-su-tu-choi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/suc-manh-cua-su-tu-choi\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ee8C M\u1ea0NH C\u1ee6A S\u1ef0 T\u1eea CH\u1ed0I"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\"h2\"Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb quan y\u1ebfu. Nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebfu (ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t) c\u00e1c \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh\u201d \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch ch\u00fang v\u00ec ch\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f2n l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh m\u00e0 x\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 c\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00ed? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i thanh to\u00e1n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c voi th\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i ti\u00ean!<\/span><\/p>\n

So v\u1edbi 10 ho\u1eb7c 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, tr\u1ebb em ng\u00e0y nay l\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 h\u01a1n. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u1edf \u00dac cho th\u1ea5y 53% tr\u1ebb con mu\u1ed1n mua \u0111\u1ed3 x\u00e0i ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 73% c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd \u201ct\u1eadp trung” v\u00e0o mua s\u1eafm v\u00e0 hoang ph\u00ed. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i \u201ckh\u00f4ng thua k\u00e9m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u0103ng cao c\u0169ng do l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. Vi\u1ec7n Nhi khoa Hoa K\u1ef3 \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh m\u1ed7i n\u0103m trung b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb M\u1ef9 xem 40.000 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c l\u00ean c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cao th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 uy t\u00edn \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang c\u00e1c ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n s\u1ed1ng. H\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf y\u00eau s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ea5m” ch\u00fang m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng \u00e1p ch\u1ebf ch\u00fang. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ee7” nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 \u201cqu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng” \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c cho con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang (b\u00e1o ch\u00ed, phim \u1ea3nh…) t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o ch\u00fang h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y l\u01b0u \u00fd ch\u00fang, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ch\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean th\u00ec tr\u1ebb th\u00eam l\u00f2ng tin, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb th\u00ec tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9 th\u00ec tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft khoan dung v\u00e0 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00ean \u00e1n khi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t khi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa c\u1ea3nh h\u00e3i h\u00f9ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tham lam khi s\u1ed1ng trong kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5. Rau n\u00e0o, s\u00e2u n\u1ea5y. Cha m\u1eb9 trung th\u1ef1c th\u00ec con c\u00e1i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec con c\u00e1i nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu th\u00ec con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 con th\u00ec d\u1ec5, l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea3o ban m\u00e0 c\u00f2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. S\u1eed Vi\u1ec5n n\u00f3i: \u201cVui nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec b\u1eb1ng d\u1ea1y con\u201d<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, v\u00ec \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c quy\u1ebft: \u201cAi mu\u1ed1n theo Th\u1ea7y, ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e1c th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 theo Th\u1ea7y\u201d<\/em> (Mt 16:24; x. Mt 10:38 v\u00e0 Lc 14:26-27). Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh tinh th\u1ea7n. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5, v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng co, nh\u01b0 Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m\u201d<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

TR\u1ea6M THI\u00caN THU<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7. Ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb c\u00f3 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":24788,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,19],"tags":[6286],"class_list":["post-24787","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-giao-duc-kito-giao","category-tieu-diem","tag-suc-manh-cua-su-tu-choi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24787","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24787"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24787\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24789,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24787\/revisions\/24789"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}