{"id":1448,"date":"2013-11-05T14:37:12","date_gmt":"2013-11-05T14:37:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=1448"},"modified":"2013-11-07T08:34:19","modified_gmt":"2013-11-07T08:34:19","slug":"trac-nghiem-truoc-nguong-cua-hon-nhan-gia-dinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/trac-nghiem-truoc-nguong-cua-hon-nhan-gia-dinh\/","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gioakim Tr\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00ecnh Giai<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 LTS<\/span> \u2013 Khi kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn, l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i tu th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 ai c\u0169ng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3, ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u201c\u0103n \u0111\u1eddi \u1edf ki\u1ebfp\u201d v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 nhi\u00eau kh\u00ea l\u1eafm! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n v\u1eady, hu\u1ed1ng chi ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Lu\u1eadt: \u201cS\u1ef1 g\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p, lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n ly\u201d (Mt 19:6; Mc 10:9)<\/i>. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n hai ho\u1eb7c v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i r\u00e1ng \u201cch\u1ecdn\u201d cho \u0111\u00fang, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ed1t l\u00ean: \u201cT\u00f4i l\u1ea7m!\u201d<\/i>. B\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng ti\u00eau ch\u00ed n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn? M\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u!<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi?<\/b><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n, xem ra ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hy v\u1ecdng g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 xem ra tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngay, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ebd ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb d\u1ed9i n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00ec ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch che gi\u1ea5u c\u00e1c khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00e1ch hay nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 coi h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 theo \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ngay t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai. N\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n chinh ph\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, hay d\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u00fd ngay l\u00e0nh, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u00f9i chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ea3y sinh th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. V\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u1eeda \u1ea3i n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ban \u0111\u1ea7u chi ph\u1ed1i m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf, \u0111i t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. S\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat ban \u0111\u1ea7u th\u01b0\u1eddng do c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh, s\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat c\u1ee7a b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam, hay do m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00e1n ph\u1ee5c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ai ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf con tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u. Ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1edbi d\u00e1m th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng, t\u1eeb l\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, quan ni\u1ec7m, s\u1edf th\u00edch, m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef k\u1ebd. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian kh\u00e1c nhau. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nhau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, m\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 nhau nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00edp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3i n\u00f4m na l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed1t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quen v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u00e1y n\u00e1y v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong c\u00e1i t\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0m cho ai \u0111\u00f3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i g\u00ec \u1edf b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n n\u00ean quen v\u1edbi h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i so s\u00e1nh, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea7m hay ch\u01b0a ch\u1ecdn. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 theo ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111a d\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u00e0 t\u00f9y theo m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1edfi m\u1edf c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu th\u1eadp \u0111\u1ee7 d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o chung cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n do ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1 ra cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 Socrate, hay L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, bi\u1ebft khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1edf th\u00edch quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, \u01b0u khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m\u2026 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edp ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00ean b\u00e0n c\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t thang gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 \u00edt quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a l\u00fd tr\u00ed t\u1ecf t\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u01b0a. B\u1edfi n\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con tim m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh th\u00ec c\u1ea7n g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, v\u00e0 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u1eeba l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i x\u00e9t xem \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n sau n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Y\u00eau nhau l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m chung quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i coi tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1eeb phi b\u1ea1n xem th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. S\u01b0 thu h\u00fat v\u1ec1 nhau s\u1ebd phai nh\u1ea1t theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng theo quy lu\u1eadt khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che ch\u1eafn b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m m\u00e0n, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec l\u00e0 b\u00ed nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt ra con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t t\u1ea7n t\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho d\u00f9 v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ebfc thay con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111a s\u1ed1 do thi\u1ec3n c\u1eadn, th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn, n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u1edbi n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sau khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, v\u00ec quen b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o c\u00e1i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn ban \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u0169 r\u00edch \u1ea5y.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi n\u00f3i tr\u00ean l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng s\u00e2u xa m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb. N\u00f3 t\u00ecm \u1ea9n n\u01a1i ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, c\u00e1i ch\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n m\u1ef9, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1o. L\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m n\u00ean ni\u1ec1m vui s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0, \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. K\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea, s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. R\u1ed3i s\u1ef1 m\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m do m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti. S\u1ef1 ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh. V\u00ec th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch th\u00ec nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch, kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m. R\u1ed3i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai b\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f9y t\u1eebng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, t\u00f9y thang gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean bi\u1ebfn thi\u00ean, t\u0103ng th\u00eam hay gi\u1ea3m \u0111i.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chia tay nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng. V\u00ec s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh, kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. Ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng h\u00f4m nay m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng ngay mai l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n ban \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p g\u1eafn b\u00f3 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3i n\u00f4m na, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee5ng tr\u1eadn m\u1ecdi d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u1eadp khi\u1ec5ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn cho ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i \u00fd, tr\u00e1i tai gai m\u1eaft, nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 xem coi n\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4i b\u1edfi, l\u00fac \u1ea5y gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi s\u1ed1ng chung th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng khi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e3 v\u01a1i, s\u1ef1 cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n, nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y h\u00f4m nay v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y mai. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n, tr\u00e1i \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, nh\u1eefng c\u00fa s\u1ed1c, b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u00f3i n\u00f4m na, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ebft th\u00ec m\u1edbi mong kh\u1ecfi qu\u1ef5 ng\u00e3. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u1eefng t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn lao, m\u1ed9t con tim r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf, m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng tay bao dung, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn, lu\u00f4n m\u1edbi m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00ean l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00edp ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/span><\/p>\n

1, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn, qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ebd g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tan v\u1ee1, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edch k\u1ef7, c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, l\u00f2ng bao dung, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9.<\/span><\/p>\n

2, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u. V\u00ec do nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed sai l\u1ea1c trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y s\u1ed1c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean cho b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y trong khi \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

3, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edch k\u1ef7. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 khi b\u1ea1n h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t, bu\u00f4ng s\u00fang \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc gian nan th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ecbch th\u1ee7 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1ecbch th\u1ee7 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9, \u0111\u1ecbch th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cao c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, hay thi\u1ebfu \u00fd th\u1ee9c vun \u0111\u1eafp v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft hay do kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed do \u00fd h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00f4ng ngay l\u00e0nh. Khi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1.<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u1ebb th\u00f9 nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ma qu\u1ef7, \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi chia r\u1ebd b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9c n\u00fap d\u01b0\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nghe theo l\u1eddi x\u00fai gi\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ebf gian v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e2y nhi\u1ec5m c\u00e1i n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n theo ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Gioan. X\u00e1c th\u1ecbt v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, \u0111\u00f4i khi ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i th\u00fa vui x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng, khi t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00f5a m\u00e3n kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u1ebb th\u00f9 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 c\u00e1ch m\u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 b\u1eb1ng k\u1ebb th\u00f9 b\u00ean trong, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, cho ma qu\u1ef7 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00f5a v\u1edbi ma qu\u1ef7, \u0111\u1ec3 cho ma qu\u1ef7 x\u1ecf m\u0169i, th\u1ebf gian cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat, x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt l\u00f4i k\u00e9o, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb kh\u1ecfi l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n m\u1ecdi m\u1ea7m m\u1ed1ng \u00edch k\u1ef7, ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, l\u00f2ng tham lam v\u00e0 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea5t b\u00e9o b\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 ma qu\u1ef7 b\u00e1m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, ho\u00e0nh h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb. Di\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea7m m\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 n\u01a1i t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111\u1ea5t s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7, l\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3i ch\u00fang, l\u00e0m ch\u00fang s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i r\u00fat lui c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda\u00a0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/b><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ea7n\u00a0 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1ng, s\u1edf th\u00edch, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng, d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, th\u00f3i quen, phong c\u00e1ch, c\u00e1ch \u0103n n\u00f3i, c\u01b0 x\u1eed, \u01b0u khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, q\u00faa kh\u1ee9, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y khi chung s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 nh\u01b0\u0303ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u1ea5y\u00a0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u01a1\u0300 n\u00f3i: Ph\u1ea3i m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft…<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u01a1\u0300 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n hay \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc h\u1ed3i th\u1eddi \u0111i h\u1ecdc b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 ngu \u0111\u1ea7n, bi\u1ebft bao th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n h\u1ed3i trai tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, c\u1edd b\u1ea1c nh\u01b0ng sau khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i…<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u00ec sao hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o… \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a\u00a0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tr\u00e1nh cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cho h\u1ecd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cI love you\u201d m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi t\u1eeb y\u00eau trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a\u00a0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 h\u1eb3n \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi t\u1eeb y\u00eau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi nhau y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 y\u00eau nhau \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 qua c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c x\u1eed s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi nhau trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 v\u00ec th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 con g\u00e1i d\u1ec3 b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1eddi t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai. S\u1ebd th\u1eadt nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 con g\u00e1i thu\u1ed9c t\u00edp l\u1ee5y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng ch\u00e0ng trai trong khi ch\u00e0ng trai l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e3 h\u00e0o hoa chuy\u00ean t\u00e1n g\u00e1i. Con trai th\u00ec g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 hi\u1ebfm khi c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a\u00a0 m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a\u00a0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n xanh) tr\u1eeb khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3 nghi, kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng?<\/b><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

X\u01b0a kia, \u0111a ph\u1ea7n cha \u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5y nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1edbc. D\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng \u0111a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t v\u00ec c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd c\u00f2n ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng C\u00f2n trong hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a duy v\u1eadt, t\u1ee5c h\u00f3a, ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, duy h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o h\u00f2ang Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II, th\u1eadt l\u00e0 phi\u00eau l\u01b0u khi ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh, b\u1ecb th\u00fac \u00e9p b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, hay tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c. Nguy hi\u1ec3m ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 sau khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111eo \u0111u\u1ed5i khi ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd trong khi con tim v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y nh\u1ee3 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0\/ hay con tim v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, rung \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 b\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eadu, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh b\u00f3ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i hay t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ebfn nguy c\u01a1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u00edt ra l\u00e0 trong t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u00e0 ban s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i, n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 sai l\u1ea7m tai h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui khi s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh cho d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 trong t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00edch phi\u00eau l\u01b0u nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh v\u1ec1\u00a0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1ec1 B\u00ed t\u00edch h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u00edt ra b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng con tim b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 th\u01b0c hi\u1ec7n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a v\u0103n h\u00f3a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft ng\u00e0y nay, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, v\u1ed1n b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh s\u1ed1ng theo t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb xa<\/b>. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con m\u00ecnh \u00edt ra l\u00e0 t\u1eeb khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00f2n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1eeb tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp, h\u00e0nh trang s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c tinh th\u1ea7n, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c do cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n vun \u0111\u1eafp v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a\u00a0 b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb g\u1ea7n<\/b>. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u00fac n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed5 \u1edf, m\u00e1i \u1ea5m t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, M\u1ed9t g\u00f3c ri\u00eang t\u01b0 tuy thi\u1ebfu ti\u1ec7n nghi v\u1eabn h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian ti\u1ec7n nghi nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i chung v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n. K\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, ho\u1eb7c \u00edt ra ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb3n tay ngh\u1ec1 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. M\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng ti\u1ec1n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m cho nh\u1eefng chi ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1eafm s\u1eeda ban \u0111\u1ea7u. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t quan h\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ri\u00eang t\u01b0 ra kh\u1ecfi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh hai b\u00ean trai g\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, g\u1eafn b\u00f3, \u00edt ra l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa gia \u0111\u00ecnh hai b\u00ean v\u1edbi hai b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao, \u0111\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00f3n ti\u1ebfp, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi con\/ ch\u1ecb\/ em d\u00e2u. Vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng\/ B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh trang c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng, li\u00ean quan tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb c\u1ea5p t\u1ed1c<\/b>. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi, vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch. Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh?<\/b><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi qua tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp, l\u1edbp v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, l\u1edbp chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb HN, qua chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean, s\u00e1ch v\u1edf b\u00e1o ch\u00ed, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4n ngoan ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c t\u1eed kinh nghi\u1ec7m.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch vun tr\u1ed3ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, \u00f4n h\u00f2a, bao dung, tha th\u1ee9 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau… qua vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ecdc, suy ni\u1ec7m L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, tham d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c B\u00ed t\u00edch, s\u1ed1ng L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 hi\u1ebfn th\u00e2n h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gioakim Tr\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00ecnh Giai \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 LTS \u2013 Khi kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn, l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i tu th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 ai c\u0169ng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3, ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u201c\u0103n \u0111\u1eddi \u1edf ki\u1ebfp\u201d v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[95],"class_list":["post-1448","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-giao-duc-kito-giao","tag-trac-nghiem-truoc-nguong-cua-hon-nhan-gia-dinh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1448","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1448"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1448\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1449,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1448\/revisions\/1449"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1448"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1448"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1448"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}