{"id":13545,"date":"2015-03-15T15:34:02","date_gmt":"2015-03-15T15:34:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/?p=13545"},"modified":"2015-03-15T15:34:02","modified_gmt":"2015-03-15T15:34:02","slug":"xay-dung-hon-nhan-hanh-phuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/xay-dung-hon-nhan-hanh-phuc\/","title":{"rendered":"X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau, k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ea5m s\u00e2u, h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u201ccam go\u201d \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, \u00edt chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u00edt \u201cch\u1ea1m\u201d v\u00e0o nhau, \u00edt vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u00edt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau \u2013 ki\u1ec3u \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m\u201d quan t\u00e2m nhau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng \u201cb\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh cao c\u1ea5p\u201d, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd! L\u00e2u ng\u00e0y d\u00e0y k\u00e9n, c\u00e1i s\u1ea3y n\u1ea3y c\u00e1i ung, chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e9 x\u00e9 ra to, chi\u1ebfn tranh l\u1ea1nh t\u0103ng theo c\u1ea5p s\u1ed1 nh\u00e2n \u2013 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 50% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng duy tr\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cv\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Theo c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng <b>kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra<\/b> l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ch\u1ea1 h\u1ecfa\u201d nhau v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n b\u00e3o th\u00e0nh c\u01a1n gi\u00f3 tho\u1ea3ng nh\u1eb9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">TS Renee Colclough Hinson, tr\u01b0\u1edfng Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i Phong ph\u00fa h\u00f3a H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, n\u00f3i: <i>\u201cH\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 khu v\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m. C\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00ec khu v\u01b0\u1eddn m\u1edbi lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb9p, n\u1ebfu khinh su\u1ea5t th\u00ec khu v\u01b0\u1eddn s\u1ebd t\u00e0n h\u00e9o v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4\u201d<\/i>. M\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><strong>H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac chung<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Kh\u00f4ng ai l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u1ea3 tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1eabn v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ee7 quan, v\u00ec ch\u1ee7 quan c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn khinh su\u1ea5t m\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 phu th\u00ea m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ri\u00eang g\u00e2y xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p l\u00e0:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify\">\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><strong>Ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c<\/strong>. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ee7, m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc bi\u1ebft s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u201cc\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n\u201d l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i h\u1ecda, v\u00ec khi ngh\u00e8o th\u00ec lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, c\u00f3 ch\u00fat ti\u1ec1n th\u00ec b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u201cng\u1ea3 nghi\u00eang\u201d l\u1eafm chuy\u1ec7n!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><strong>T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/strong>. Kho\u1ea3ng 45% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n \u00e2n \u00e1i l\u00fac n\u00e0y, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia mu\u1ed1n l\u00fac kh\u00e1c; ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 do thi\u1ebfu c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi nhau. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i g\u00e0, b\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ecbt!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><strong>C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong>. V\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 ri\u00eang, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng ri\u00eang. \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 v\u1ecb th\u1ebf cao h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><strong>Con c\u00e1i<\/strong>. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p chung nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><strong>Giao ti\u1ebfp t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">John Gottman, GS khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0110H Washington v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp Vi\u1ec7n Gottman, \u0111\u00e3 ghi h\u00ecnh h\u01a1n 3.000 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u xem \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng khi th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, c\u00e1c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhau, r\u1ed3i ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. Ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i khinh khi \u2013 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 l\u00e0m \u201cx\u00f3i m\u00f2n\u201d h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n c\u00f4ng. \u1ea8u \u0111\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t sinh, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e0ng th\u00eam nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c g\u1ea5p 5 l\u1ea7n trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u201cm\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1ecbn, ch\u00edn s\u1ef1 l\u00e0nh\u201d, v\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3, \u0111\u1ed3ng ch\u1ed3ng, t\u00e1t Bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 align=\"right\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;font-size: medium;font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">TR\u1ea6M THI\u00caN THU<\/span><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau, k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ea5m s\u00e2u, h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n! Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u201ccam go\u201d \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, \u00edt chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u00edt \u201cch\u1ea1m\u201d v\u00e0o &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13546,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,19],"tags":[3326],"class_list":["post-13545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-giao-duc-kito-giao","category-tieu-diem","tag-xay-dung-hon-nhan-hanh-phuc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13545"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13545\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13548,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13545\/revisions\/13548"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13546"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/longchuathuongxot.vn\/v2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}